"My Erection just failed me for the first time"
Relax! The more you worry about this, the worse this will get. Don't put pressure on yourself. Don't rush into a sexual situation just to show yourself that things can work. Let things happen naturally.
However, if the problem is continuing, don't ignore it. If you are now avoiding sexual relations or avoiding dating and socializing, then the problem has gone on too long. Seek help now.
"My Erection just failed me for the first time"
At OMH we are here to listen to your anxieties and to help you get through the stress of this. We don't believe that "it's all in your head" is a good enough excuse to not address the problem. We will take the problem seriously, evaluate in detail for any physical issues, and do everything necessary to get things back on track.
My wife and I were getting along OK, but we had slipped into a routine of avoiding sex because it was awkward for both of us when I couldn't perform . We just put it down to age and moved on. One day I just decided to look into it further, and let me tell you, don't let anyone tell you that you need to give up sex just because of your age. Our life is much more complete now than it has been in years. Get help today. My wife and I are so glad we did.
Last year, out of nowhere, I couldn't keep an erection. I thought it was just from the stress of final exams and tried to ignore it. But when it happened again I freaked out. I really love my girlfriend so this stressed me out even more. But after talking it over with my doctor and taking some brief treatment, things got right back on track, and now everything is better than ever.